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He would make it very hard for me to leave…. He does not want to forgive our friend, or even see her narried again. He forbids me to see her as well. Look what you did! He keeps saying, if the roles were reversed and some women gave him a hand job, would i allow him to Bi married woman out with that woman again. I find that scenario totally different, and the same, at the same time.
Although it sounds like you guys have had a long history of trust issues. In my opinion a marriage needs trust to survive. I admitted to him that I felt I was bisexual but have never physically acted on it, but I had been texting a woman I met online.
Soccer fulfills my need for sport and Salley-SC gay sex but piano would fulfil my love of music. Two completely different interests each with its own objective. I wish I could make him see it the way I do. I loved the analogy…. Im going to use that to explain that part of me too. Bi married woman love the symbolism as well. Recently Bi married woman out to my husband as bi when he discovered and I admitted to an affair with a woman for about 6 months.
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