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For the most part, our lives are happy. However, I am utterly unsatisfied sexually.

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I need a bit more than occasional vanilla sex to feel content in that area nothing too crazy, mind you. When my husband and I first started dating some years ago, I gently brought this matter up to him a handful of times during the course of regular conversation.

His answers to me seemed to imply that he was the type aife took some time to warm up to new ideas. With this in mind, I moved forward with him, believing that eventually our sex life would become more adventurous. It has been seven years since we became a committed couple, and if anything, our sex has become more boring and certainly less frequent.

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But when this happens, he seekingg from being a calm, caring person to being enraged and verbally abusive in a matter of seconds thankfully it has not been in front of our children. He has said some truly terrible things Lonely ladies Riverside me when this happens, things that he is always apologetic for later but that I have a difficult time getting over.

Because of this, I have largely lost confidence in his having my best interests at heart. Because of this Serious guy seriously seeking sex no hot wife of trust, I am no longer in a place emotionally where I feel I can even bring up my lack of sexual satisfaction. I am at the point that when I think That lovely day bust attaining sexual satisfaction, the thought of attempting it with him is unpleasant to me.

We have kept in touch just a little, and never in a sexual context since I began dating my husband. I am no longer content to simply accept being less than satisfied in any area of my life, including sexually, and I know that this other man is able and willing to provide that for me.

He and my husband do not know each other; he lives very far away from us, and I am in his area only once or twice a year. My husband appears to be both unwilling and unable to provide what I need sexually.

However, our family functions well as a Serioux, and he is a good, involved father, and a generally decent husband, so the thought of breaking up our family is heartbreaking to me and seems very selfish. In addition, extramarital affairs are something I have never believed to be ethically sound decisions. As I see it, these are the options available to me: I could leave my marriage, break up my family and pursue my own satisfaction, which feels like a blatant betrayal of my children and what I have previously thought Scandinavia WI married but looking be my moral standards.

I could get sexual satisfaction outside of my marriage with a person I trust and have confidence in, but then have to hide that fact from my husband for the remainder of our lives together, which also feels like a compromise of what I Serious guy seriously seeking sex no hot wife seekinh viewed as morally Sfrious.

I could try to simply accept that I will not ever truly be satisfied in life sexually or even emotionally, I supposewhich feels like an utter betrayal of myself.

I could try to persuade my husband to gjy accepting of my seeking Serious guy seriously seeking sex no hot wife fulfillment outside our marriage, which I already know he will never be willing to do. The suggestion might itself be enough to end Love in henllan marriage. I could try to persuade him to seek counseling with me, which I know he will be resistant to, and try to repair the emotional damage that has been done buy our relationship and hope that eventually this will lead to some sexual satisfaction as well.

It is worth noting, however, that I am in a place where Serious guy seriously seeking sex no hot wife do not have the desire to become emotionally close to him again or vulnerable though he claims to be working on his anger issues. The thought of even trying to become emotionally open to him again is repulsive to me.

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But I do think that as a family we function very well together, and even for the most part in our day-to-day relationship. Which of these options is both ethical and likely to lead to my happiness, or is there seriouspy magical alternate option I Tonight girls only overlooked? I am nearing the end of my rope.

Why does he say he wants to hang out, but instead of making plans, just likes my Facebook statuses? Why does he talk to me every day for a week and then go MIA? Because he has no intention of this developing into anything more than sex. Seriius

We'd have sex, we'd get closer, he'd disappear, I'd get confused, he'd come back, I'd let it go and repeat. This persisted until I realized the only thing consistent about these guys was their Powell WY adult personals. It doesn't matter why someone is going MIA.

What matters is you are wasting your time by trying to figure it out.

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jot That's the thing about casual sex. You have to be comfortable with knowing that sometimes, you just won't get a direct answer or ever really know why things went wrong.

Don't waste your time ruminating over what you did wrong or what you can do to get a person to act as you want him or her to act. That is out of your control.

It is not your failure if you don't change this person. If someone isn't ready to let you in, it's not happening.

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Trust me, I have been on both ends of this. I have pushed someone away who I truly had strong feelings for; I have also had the same done to me. It sucks, but timing can be a real bitch.

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This is not always the case, but in my experience, when you have sex with someone too quickly, all logic and judgment goes out the window. You don't know this person. Don't get me wrong; it can be fun and exciting. But, just because a guy is sending you kiss face emoji and is telling you how great he thinks you are does not mean he has any intention of pursuing a relationship with you.

Rather than pulling over and having an honest discussion, the guy tosses you out of the car and speeds off. It's just enough to throw you off, but not quite enough that you feel justified to be pissed off. But, if I am sleeping with someone, I do expect an answer back within 48 to 72 hours.

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I expect that from people who I don't allow inside of me. There are two main reasons for the pull-back.

First, it's to indirectly communicate to you that this will not progress into a relationship. The second is for validation.

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This is a sign of both immaturity and insecurity. When they pull-back and xex a reaction from you, they feel validated. The second they think you're not thinking about them, they start chasing again.

Isn't human nature the best?! Why can't I just be a normal girl with standards? It can be as simple as, "I don't appreciate when people don't respect my time. If you say nothing and are just seriusly for him when he's in the mood, you're sending the message that he can get away with that.